I see the struggle of what it likes to be in a relationship through my roommate James. Him and his girlfriend are fighting, but it seems as though they are fighting about trivial issues. Who am I to judge? I am not the best situation either, but at least I can provide a perspective. Although I live with James and see the inner workings of their fights, I am still on the outside. I do not know the full length of their conversations, and it would be remiss of me to judge what I do not fully understand. However, I still do have a perspective part of James’ and part of hers, Daneille’s. I want them to stay together. I want them to understand the struggles and sacrifices needed to be in and stay in a healthy and successful relationship. It is premature to leave when things get emotional. It is unwise to make decisions based on feelings, they should wait, allow time to pass and allow feelings to come to a stable point of equilibrium. I may be single but I still value relationships just as much as anyone in a relationship. I see them from an outsider’s perspective and I think these spoiled brats, they don’t know how good they have it.